We are schooled to never lie in life by our parents, teahcers and etc. Living by our own lies and truth sometimes can be complicated. Generally, living philosophy of individuals differs from one another. The way you live, grow up, love..., (and the list goes on) is completely up to the place you were born and the environment you were fed by. 

When I look into the lifes of people live nowadays, an observation of mine can state that: Pandemic period and lockdown changed all the doctrine of life. Has it ever happened to you when social media users during lockdown shared their goals of getting fit or getting rid of any unhealthy habits, avoiding some kind of bad routines?
I noticed everytime people accepting their traumas, their "bads" and any other characteristics they wanted to change on Youtube comments, Twitter posts and over the Internet. This is the main truth of people they created passion to change for. But this did not always use to be that easy!
Since we born, the goal setting process of our own life started with our family and then impressed by our classmates, friends and the groups we created to have fun. 

How to become fearless about ourselves?
When we are trying to be honest with ourselves, we start not to get afraid and accept our imperfections and flaws. Accepting is transforming. Processing your insecurities means overcoming them. This is the real declaration of victory!
There is no anything can be considered as constant in this world. Every little detail of Earth is changing. As well as we are. However, God gave us one thing for eternity which is our core. This basement never changes. Everytime it exists forever and stays authentic. And through our  life, everything we do bases on this core. Your lies and your truth flowing through this notion. 
No matter with what colors you coat your truth to please the world and others, you will always be what you are at the core. Your core is your truth. Try to please you first!